Saturday, 25 January 2014

Don't Drink The Water...

I am writing this blog post at 6.55 am. The rest of the family are still fast asleep but I know that I need to walk down to the dining hall and collect drinking water for breakfast, a chore I forgot to do last night. The dining hall is not far away but the hill is steep and the thinness of the air at this altitude will cause me to be out of breath and dizzy after my ascent.
Euan having his morning wash (not in drinking water).

The altitude and the pathogens in tap water are just two of many things which we need to adjust to while living here at Hebron school. In two months time our bodies will have increased the concentration of red blood cells and the altitude will no longer have an effect; we will adjust to most other things much sooner.
Water scarcity is a real problem in the Nilgiris due to 3 failed monsoons.

Adjustments are made much easier by the generous and warm welcome given to staff arriving here and the orientation program which seeks to help new arrivals understand the culture of India and of the school. We have been struck by how sympathetic everyone is to the stresses of transition, evidenced by the help we have received from the whole community and by the excellent sessions provide by John and Janine Barclay and other staff.
'Middle Cottage', our accomodation.
Our front door the day we arrived.

Lessons on the culture of South India had an immediate practical application as the school community was invited to a local wedding in Ooty which all new staff and International Guests attended. Indian weddings are great for the guests; everyone is invited so thousands attend but only to eat the food, greet the bride and groom and swiftly depart, a pattern known as ‘Eat, Greet, Go’. The bride and groom suffer the most as they have their pictures taken with every guest who greets them. Eve took this opportunity to wear her Sari for the first time. The other first Eve experienced was an attack of ‘Delhi Belly’ as the rich Biryani proved too much for her western digestive system. It was mercifully short, however, and she felt much better after 24 hours.
The married couple will stay on the stage all afternoon greeting and receiving gifts.

Eve in her Sari


We have also been discovering more about our responsibilities during our first semester; Mark will be teaching Geography, Science and Chemistry as well as taking care of a standard 11 tutor group. Eve will be teaching two standard 9 German classes and some AS German. Both of us will be Dorm support for year 12 boys and we have various other duties, the full extent of which we have yet to discover. One thing learned quickly about Hebron is that everyone fills more than one role and there are always opportunities to take on more responsibilities.
Professional Staff at Hebron School for the coming semester - can you find us?

We have also learned about the compassionate approach Hebron takes as it nurtures the children and young people given into its care. Our own children are already benefiting from this as they discover new freedoms in a safe environment and make friends with the offspring of other staff. During the staff retreat our speaker David Wilcox has been emphasising this vital role as a Christian school and it is a feature of our calling which we will learn ever more deeply as time goes on.
Luke and Euan with some new friends.

Having been swamped by the practicalities of preparation it feels like God has brought us here in a whirlwind and it is only now we are appreciating the responsibility and privilege of the task he has given. My hope is that we will have the faith to take on the challenges and the time to appreciate the joys which we are sure to encounter.



Mark

Wednesday, 15 January 2014

The End of a Long Journey


The Youngs have arrived at Ooty!

After a teary goodbye with grandparents, Sarah and Anthea at Heathrow we experienced our first long haul flight to Mumbai. With all the food, drink and entertainment it isn't a bad way to travel but after nine hours we were ready to stretch our legs.
Final goodbye to Mark's mum and dad.
Sarah (right), Mark's sister and Anthea who helped with the bags and the driving.

We had a six hour wait in Mumbai before our next flight to Coimbatore but most of that time was taken up with collecting bags and transferring to the domestic airport. Mark's landlady from his student days, an experienced traveller to India, recommended we use the porters but be ready to give a tip. We had an excellent porter who took care of  us and our 8 check-in bags very well. His reasons that we should give him  a good tip included:
  1. It is my birthday.
  2. I only get paid 6000 rupees a month (about £60)
  3. My rent is 2500 rupees a month
  4. I am a Christian and will go to church today.
  5. I have a father who doesn't work.
  6. I will put most of my tip in the offering plate at church.
  7. I have a bad back.
  8. My children are hungry.
  9. Life is very hard in India.
In the end he got a very good tip because we didn't have any Rupees at this stage and the smallest note in Mark's wallet was £10. A thousand rupees is very good pay for an hours work. The first thing we did after he left us was to change a £20 note into rupees!

The boys finally got some sleep in the departure lounge at Mumbai but when we woke Euan to get the next flight to Coimbatore he threw an intense and prolonged temper tantrum which lasted until he got into his seat on the plane. The boys were now in sleep mode and both didn't open their eyes again until we landed.

Two sleepy boys and exhausted parents at Mumbai airport.

Another helpful porter at baggage collection (only 100 Rupees this time) and we exited Coimbatore airport, feeling that we had finally entered India to be greeted by Donna Davies (Human resources from Hebron) smiling face.

The drive up the mountain to Ooty was everything we expected it to be; hot; colourful; chaotic road rules; hairpin bends; families of four on one moped with no helmets; health and safety always giving way to practicality and very exciting to be at the last stage of all our preparations and travelling. Luke loved this part of the journey and warmed our hearts by saying, 'Thank you for bringing me to India Mummy and Daddy, I love you'.
In the car driving up to Ooty.

We got a warm welcome on arrival at Hebron School, immediately forgetting the names of all the people we were introduced to, all of whom helped carry our luggage up the hill to the cottage which will be our first home in India. The boys are loving the playground and the new friends they have already made.

Our first impressions of India, our accommodation and the school will be in our next blog post. For now let me say a thank you to all who prayed for our journey and helped us to prepare. It was tiring but couldn't have been much smoother and the boys managed really well, the Lord has heard your prayers and blessed us greatly. Check out 'How to pray for us' for an update on our prayer requests.

God bless you all.

Mark, Eve, Luke and Euan

Thursday, 9 January 2014

The Final Stages of a Long Journey




There are 4 days left before the Young family depart for Ooty in Tamil Nadu state, Southern India. If there are no delays we will arrive at Hebron School sometime after lunch, reaching a destination we have been journeying towards for almost twelve months. 

Ootacamund, now Udagamandalam, always known as Ooty
Hebron School,our final destination.
We first heard of this school for children of full-time Christian workers in South-East Asia from our good friend Salome, a former student. For two years we ignored Salome's persistent prompts to consider teaching at Hebron; we knew that God wanted us in North Wales running the youth program at a local Church plant. That is, until God turned our whole world upside down in every way we could imagine, showing us that whatever our future is, it will be His plan which prevails.
Salome with Luke (aged 3) in 2011
It was in hospital during a period of doubt regarding my final healing from cancer that God gave us, through his faithful servant, James Goodman, a promise (Jeremiah 29:11):

11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12 Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.

As we both recovered from the valley of the shadow which Christ had carried us through we sought God's plan for our future. We knew there was a need at Hebron School for language teachers as well as other roles. We knew we could fill that role, but we also knew that we have many plans in our hearts but it is God's will which prevails.

And so, we took the first steps of this journey . . .